LUCY JANE

Blessed beyond measure to announce that our second daughter, Lucy Jane, arrived

at 9:34 a.m. on April 29, 2013 weighing 6 pounds 4 ounces and 18.5 inches long.

Words cannot begin to describe the depth of our JOY.

Our dear friend, Jayna, was gracious to enough lend her talent to capture our day in photos.

Our God is SO good and His love is extravagant! 

Thank you, Beloved Savior, for this precious GIFT!!!

BLESSED

My dear, sweet friend and photographer extraordinaire, Jayna, along with my beautiful little sister, Danielle (fabulous hair stylist and my make-up + fashion guru) got together and blessed me immensely with a maternity shoot.  Jayna snapped away, Danielle styled and assisted, and I could not wipe the perma-grin off of my face.  

I cannot believe I have been gifted this little girl growing inside.

My cup runneth over.

You have filled us with abundant JOY, sweet girl.  

 Our arms are waiting for you . . .

YEAR FOUR

As I sit here and write this there is a sweet baby girl wiggling inside of me, her movements growing as she does.  We are in the homestretch now, with just a matter of weeks left.  

OUR ARMS ACHE TO HOLD HER.

Four years ago today in the early morning hours we held our Maggie girl for the first and only time this side of Paradise.  

It was the last way we pictured meeting our baby girl.

OUR ARMS ACHE TO HOLD HER AGAIN.

Though my eyes are red, my cheeks tear-stained and my heart heavy, I am so very thankful to serve a good and faithful God.  A God that weaves redemption into torn tapestries and brings new life to help bind up deep wounds. A God who sent His son . . .

". . . to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion—to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.
They will be called oaks of righteousness,
    a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor."

-Isaiah 61:3

BEAUTY FOR ASHES.

Joy instead of mourning.

A garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.

We are missing our first precious daughter with fierce longing that will not cease until we hold her again in the sweet company of our Savior.

You are so dearly loved, my sweetheart!

We will meet you There...

FILLING IN THE BLANKS

When our two older boys started Kindergarten and 2nd grade this past August, I decided to take a step back from the things that pulled me away from them.  While I continued to capture the moments that framed in the day-to-day of our life, and jotted down the things I just couldn't bear to let slip out of my memory, I struggled to think much further than home.  With hectic schedules and new routines, my three little boys needed me more than ever, and I had more processing to do than I had words to explain. 

This past July we said goodbye to another precious baby. 

After months of waiting and hoping to see that pink plus sign, we were thrilled to finally watch it appear, and wasted no time sharing our news.  Elation and joy took a sharp turn 7 weeks in when we found ourselves once again questioning, unraveling and asking why God would say "yes" only to say "no" just weeks later.  Hopes raised sky high and sent crashing to the pit once again.

 WE WERE DEVASTATED.

Six pregnancies.

Six new beginnings.

Six of the best moments of my life spent staring down at a flicker of hope and anticipation contained in a faint pink line, and we have said goodbye to every other babe.

3 precious lives here.

3 waiting for us There.

And 1 . . .

growing inside.

While we count ourselves extremely blessed to wrap our arms around the three wiggly boys we have been fortunate enough to take home and do life with every single day, it grieves us immensely to have 3 children that we have never had the privilege of knowing.  Whether at Week 6, Week 7 or Week 31, a lost life aches deeply, and the holes in our family where they would be are each profound. 

I could not wrap my mind, heart and body around the loss of our sweet baby this past summer.

 I feared my still-tender heart was not strong enough to survive another blow.

I had words with God. 

Harsh words.

Desperate words.

Familiar, hopeless words.

New wounds erupting, old wounds stinging fresh once again.

I am so thankful for these four sweeties.

I cannot imagine walking the emptiness without these little boys who bring such fullness to my life, my beloved Adam who bears the load when I cannot and grieves alongside me, and a Father in Heaven that holds my precious babies just as tenderly as He holds me. 

In the midst of the darkness and unraveling, we learned we were expecting again. 

IN DECEMBER, WE FOUND OUT GOD WAS GROWING ANOTHER

PRECIOUS DAUGHTER INSIDE OF ME.

While no other life could ever take the place of our Maggie girl, we serve a God of REDEMPTION, and I have been deeply soaking in the warmth and beauty of this new life we've been given. A piece of our Maggie's legacy carried on in the life of her baby sister.  The months have not passed without anxiousness, hesitation and fear.  Satan would love nothing more than to taint this precious joy with crippling worry and doubt.  Some days the battle is harder than others, and his lies speak louder than the Truth that I know is sovereign and good.  It has done my heart inexpressible good to be trusted with the privilege of a second sweet daughter.  It has been such a joy to watch my husband rejoice and soak up the sweetness, and look on as our sons overflow at the chance to be big brothers to another precious sister.

Such a gift.

Such an honor.

Such a delight.

We are preparing our hearts and our family to begin this new chapter, and let words of sweet praise fall often from our lips.

Thank you, Lord, for this life!